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I just found out my friend is a ‘Meth Head.’ He came over to my place and told me he’s been using it for a year and a half. He's up to using 3-4 times a week. I had no idea. He just gave me his bank card and asked me to not let him do it. I'm freaked out.... What can I do to help him?
-John

Response from: NELSON

This can be a tough situation to support a friend through. It's great that your friend trusts you and has let you know how serious his fears are. Try to be as non-judgmental as possible (maybe stay away from terms like meth-head) - he's probably judging himself enough. Start by letting him know that you're glad he's shared this info with you and that you want to help. One way is to find information for him about crystal, making sure he's as educated as possible (educating yourself at the same time), and that he knows the safest ways to use. If he's interested in stopping/reducing his use, you can also help him research ways to do that.

Self-care is important too. You need to be aware of what your limits and boundaries are. If you aren't comfortable with anything being asked of you, it is okay to say that to your friend. Whatever support you offer, it is important to remember that he is ultimately the one who has to take whatever steps he feels necessary to deal with this.

TIP: This site is full of information that might be helpful for you and your friend. You might want to begin with the SUPPORT section. There are articles there for friends of people who want to know the best ways to help.