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I have a friend who is a hard-core user… He slams Tina and I’m worried about him. He tells me about some of the scenes he gets into while slamming. He seems to fetishize unsafe sex now. He has described scenes including BDSM, scat, sharing blood and other extreme stuff. He says he wants to explore even more of his dark side but I’m not sure whether I can even listen to his tales anymore… but I don’t want to abandon him because we’ve been friends for a long time. What should I do?
-B.N.
Response
It’s a shame none of you people really know anything about recovery. The party is over when you start using crystal. No one needs drugs have a fun and a successful life, using Crystal is a cope-out and your site simply continues to endorse safe using practices, which are impossible to maintain when people use meth. I feel great sadness when people see a site like yours and therefore assume it’s okay to use drugs as long as their teeth aren’t falling out or they can no longer function at work. Very sad indeed. Perhaps you guys need to hear that gay men don’t need to use drugs to have a great life. Period. Very disappointing.
- S.C.
Response
I just found out my friend is a ‘Meth Head.’
He came over to my place and told me he’s been using
it for a year and a half. He's up to using 3-4 times a week.
I had no idea. He just gave me his bank card and asked me
to not let him do it. I'm freaked out.... What can I do to
help him?
-John
Response
I swallowed Tina before and it kept me wired for a long
time. Last weekend, a friend passed me a pipe and I tried
smoking it. It kept me awake for a long time like before,
but the buzz felt different. Do you think I did something
else?
-Damien
Response
Crystal meth is not new. It was big in the 70s and now
it is big again. Why should we be concerned?
-Paul
Response
Since beginning work on getting Tina out of my life,
I have found that sometimes just thinking of the drug is a
huge turn on. A guy online just sent me a hot email with the
suggestion to hook up and PnP and I was instantly hard, body
and mind. Can someone explain what this?
-Stuart
Response
I had a horrible comedown with tina so I have sworn off
of it. I haven’t done any in about 3 months. In it’s
place, I occasionally (and I do mean occasionally) smoke rock
instead. Unfortunately, I still associate sex with drugs and
I find that rock is a similar experience to tina but I now
I can sleep afterwards and still have an appetite. However,
as we all know, rock has a terrible social stigma. I realize
this is a “tina” website, but I already know a
few guys, like myself, who are switching as I have to avoid
tina at any cost. I’d love to know more about rock (I’m
not even sure what’s in it) and how it compares to tina
(physiological effects). Thanks!
- G.M.
Response
My boyfriend and I have been living together for eight
years. Last year we got into Tina but after several months
decided the downsides weren’t worth it. We both agreed
to stop but he can’t seem to. He lies more and more
and life with him has become a roller coaster. I don’t
know what is real anymore. I still love him and want to help
him. How can I save my relationship?
-Craig
Response
I'm looking to cut down on my Tina use, which is basically
2x a month. I know it's bad for me. I don't think I can quit
cold turkey because I'd still like to PnP with it sometimes.
Is this possible or am I going to have to give it up and never
go back?
-Randy
Response
I am HIV + and on meds. When I party on crystal, should
I still take my meds? I wonder about the huge amount of powerful
chems going into my body at the same time.
-Michael B
Response
Using Tina has become an every weekend habit for me.
I want to quit but am worried about what happens when the
first weekend comes around. What will I do when it's Friday
night and the urge to PnP hits?
-Tom
Response
It's estimated that between 6 and 22 percent of gay men in Toronto have used
meth in the past year. Do you know of an accurate figure?
- T.B.
Response
I’ve heard that crystal meth slows down the progression
of HIV. I have been HIV positive for three years… If
I started using crystal meth occasionally, could it help my
HIV?
-Jim
Response
Just wondering how much it is to get a full sti test
and where is your nearest test centre to downtown Toronto?
Thanks.
-CM
Response
I am an occasional user, party usually once sometimes
twice a week. I am supposed to be getting a PSA and some other
blood work done soon... will the blood work detect my use,
and if yes, how long do I have to clean up to go under the
radar?
-QR
Response
I used to party a bit with crystal when we went to raves
a few years ago but we always called crystal “jib”.
Is Tina the same thing or is it something different?
- J.G.
Response
Just wondering how much it is to get a full sti test
and where is your nearest test centre to downtown Toronto?
Thanks.
-CM
Response
I am an occasional user, party usually once sometimes
twice a week. I am supposed to be getting a PSA and some other
blood work done soon... will the blood work detect my use,
and if yes, how long do I have to clean up to go under the
radar?
-QR
Response
It's estimated that between 6 and 22 percent of gay men in Toronto have used
meth in the past year. Do you know of an accurate figure?
- T.B.
Response
I’ve heard that crystal meth slows down the progression
of HIV. I have been HIV positive for three years… If
I started using crystal meth occasionally, could it help my
HIV?
-Jim
Response
What is the difference between crystal and ecstasy?
-Jay T.
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